Queer Wedding Photographer NZ

honouring your love story in its authenticity

for the non-traditional couples

make your wedding truly yours

the wedding space can feel so hetero

to be honest…

If you’re feeling disconnected from traditional wedding experiences — I don’t blame you at all.

If I had a dollar everytime I see a “Mr. & Mrs.” sign at a venue, or every time a vendor refers to my couples as “the bride and groom”, I probably wouldn’t even have to work anymore.

actually celebrating queer love

you deserve a photographer who:

♥︎ goes beyond just “inclusive language”

♥︎ understands your identity without you having to explain it

♥︎ makes you feel totally comfortable in your own skin

no matter how you identify.

connecting on a deeper level

—

connecting on a deeper level —

because it’s not just about the photos

You don’t just want a photographer who’s just there to snap some photos on your wedding day.

You want someone that also values your love, sees you authentically, and prioritises your presence and connection.

the queer wedding photographer you’ve been looking for

I’m Shelby. And we were totally meant to find each other.

As a queer person myself, I know how important it is to feel safe and celebrated as you are.

I’m so here to champion that queer joy while documenting one of the core moments of your lives!

21963+

photos taken & edited

4+

years in the film industry

25+

years of being a hopeless romantic

proud to be:

Asian owned

🌏

Women owned business

♀️

LGBTQ+ owned

🏳️‍🌈

Environmentally conscious

🌱

how I help you be 100% present on your day

Nothing staged or posed, just you being your silly, fun, beautiful selves. If you forget I’m even there, I’ve done my job.

୨୧ cinematic documentary style

୨୧ storyboard consultation

Based on your moodboard & daydreams, we’ll put together a plan for how you want your day to translate into photos — your vision is my command.

୨୧ customised planning assistance

An unconventional wedding means you can’t just follow a template when it comes to planning. I’m here to help with any of the planning process — this isn’t my first rodeo!

so how does this work?

getting photos that honour your experience

is as easy as 1,2,3…

Step 1: We connect

Let me know when and where you’re looking to get married, and I’ll hop on a call to get to know you and your dreams for your day, and give you ideas or guidance specifically tailored for you.

Step 2: We plan your dream experience

We’ll get into the deets of your dream wedding experience together, and make sure that everything completely reflects you and your values as a couple. Wedding planning doesn’t have to be overwhelming!

Step 3: We capture your beautiful moments

When it comes to the day, your only job is to be 100% present and relaxed — knowing all those irreplaceable moments will be captured truthfully and beautifully.

take the first step

what my couples say…

"Made the whole process super comfortable"

Shelby is a brilliant photographer and creates the most dreamy images - me and my partner couldn’t believe how magical the photos looked!
She was also so calming and made the whole process super comfortable, even though we don’t normally love being photographed.
I wish I had an excuse to do another photoshoot with her, she’s fantastic!
—Soph + Josh
"Loved that we could be ourselves"

Shelby captured so many magical moments for us!! The photos are even dreamier than I ever imagined!!
I really loved that me and my partner could be ourselves, in the ways that felt comfortable for us 💖
This experience was a real gift!
—Joanna + Nellie
"Beyond our wildest dreams!!"

Shelby created an experience beyond our wildest dreams!!
Neither of us are overly comfortable in front of a camera, but we were able to work with tu studios to develop a vision that was really fun, special and felt unique to us.
We felt supported throughout the whole process, and were able to laugh and relax, while producing gorgeous shots we will cherish ❤️
—Sophie + Kirsty