So youāre getting married!! Now comes the fun (and slightly overwhelming) part: planning.
Hereās the truth: timing matters, but the order of booking matters even more. Some vendors (like your photographer and venue) get snapped up over a year in advance, while others can wait until youāve sorted out the bigger details. And if youāre eloping? Well, thatās a whole different timeline (spoiler: your photographer comes first!).
Contents
What Sequence You Should Book Your Wedding Vendors (the TL;DR)
Full timeline breakdown further below!
For Traditional Weddings
Venue
Photographer & Videographer
Planner/Coordinator
Catering
Florist
Entertainment
Dress & Attire
Hair & Makeup Artist
Celebrant/Officiant
Rentals & DƩcor
Stationery
Transport
Cake & Desserts
Final Vendor Confirmations
For Elopements
Elopement Photographer
Celebrant
Accommodation & Travel
Florist
Hair & Makeup Artist
Rentals (If Needed)
Picnic/Dining Arrangements
When to Book Your Vendors (For Traditional Weddings)
Donāt worry too much about the exact number of months prior to your wedding you should book vendors ā your engagement period might be way shorter than whatās listed below. The sequence and priority of when you book vendors is the more important thing!
12-18 Months Before:
Venue
Your venue is the cornerstone of your wedding. It determines your date, guest count, and overall vibe. Popular venues book out way in advanceāespecially for weekends in peak seasonāso if you have your heart set on a specific spot, donāt wait! If youāre super flexible with your date, you might have more options, but if you want that dreamy vineyard or beachside spot, book it yesterday.
Photographer & Videographer
Once you have a date, this is your next move. The best photographers book out fast, sometimes a year (or more) in advance. Plus, you want someone who gets your vibeādo you want moody and cinematic, light and airy, or candid and documentary-style? The last thing you want is scrambling to find any available photographer who doesnāt make you feel like your wedding is just another day at the office.
Planner/Coordinator
If youāre working with a wedding planner, nowās the time to bring them on board! Theyāll help you find vendors, create timelines, and make sure everything runs smoothly. Even if youāre DIY-ing most of your wedding, a coordinator for the day-of can be a lifesaverāyou donāt want to be the one figuring out why the florist hasnāt arrived while youāre getting your makeup done.
9-12 Months Before:
Catering
If your venue doesnāt include food, itās time to start tastings (the best part of wedding planning, obviously). Good caterers book up quickly, and you donāt want to be left with a sad buffet just because you waited too long.
Florist
If flowers are a major part of your wedding vision (or if you just need peonies and theyāre only in season for like five minutes), book your florist early. Peak season weddings? Lock it in now before all the good ones are taken.
Music/Entertainment
Whether youāre after a DJ, a band, or a string quartet playing Bridgerton-style pop song coverss, this is the time to secure them. The best acts get scooped up fastāespecially the ones who know how to keep the dance floor going all night long.
6-9 Months Before:
Wedding Attire
Wedding dresses can take months to arrive and even longer to alter, so donāt leave this too late! Start shopping now so you have time for fittings, adjustments, and maybe even a last-minute change of heart (it happens!).
Hair & Makeup Artist
Peak season? Book early. Trust me, good makeup artists are like gold dust during wedding season, and you donāt want to end up with someone who thinks ānatural glamā means caking on three layers of foundation.
Celebrant
No officiant = no legal wedding. If youāre getting legally married (rather than just throwing an epic party), make sure you book someone who gets you. Bonus points if they can bring personality and warmth to your ceremony instead of just reading a script.
3-6 Months Before:
Rentals & DƩcor
If your venue doesnāt come with tables, chairs, lighting, or that gorgeous ceremony arch youāve been dreaming about, nowās the time to book them. (Otherwise, you might find yourself panic-ordering fairy lights the week before your wedding.)
Stationery
Invitations, signage, menusāorder them now so you have time for proofing, printing, and mailing (and, you know, chasing down those guests who still havenāt RSVPād).
Transport
Whether itās a sleek classic car for your grand entrance or a guest shuttle so nobody has to worry about getting home, get this locked in before all the good options are gone.
1-3 Months Before:
Cake & Desserts
If youāre ordering from a boutique bakery, theyāll likely need at least 2ā3 months' notice, especially for intricate designs. (And if you need an excuse for extra cake tastings, this is it.)
Final Vendor Confirmations
Nowās the time to check in with all your vendors, confirm timelines, and make sure everyone knows where they need to be and when. Basically, this is your āAre we all on the same page?ā moment before the big day.
When to Book Your Vendors (For Elopements)
If youāre eloping, your booking order is different. Since elopements donāt typically have venues, your photographer comes first ātheyāll often help with location scouting, planning, and vendor recommendations.
9-12 Months Before:
Elopement Photographer (& Videographer)
Your elopement photographer isnāt just there to snap gorgeous photos ā theyāre often part planner, location scout, and all-around hype person. If you have a specific one in mind, book them as soon as you have a rough date. The best elopement photographers fill their calendars quickly, and you donāt want to miss out on someone who gets your vision.
Bonus tip: Many elopement photographers offer packages that include vendor recommendations, so securing them early can actually make the rest of your planning way easier.
Itās tricky finding such an important person for your day, so Iāve written a guide on how to choose the right elopement photographer for you.
6-9 Months Before:
Celebrant/Officiant
If youāre having a legal ceremony, youāll need one. Some elopement photographers are also registered celebrants (talk about multitasking), but if not, book yours now.
Accommodation & Travel
If your dream elopement involves a scenic getawayāwhether itās a remote cabin, a luxury lodge, or a tent under the starsābook it early. Popular spots fill up fast, especially in peak season. The same goes for flights, rental cars, or any tricky travel logistics.
3-6 Months Before:
Florist
Even if youāre keeping things simple, a bouquet or boutonniere can add a special touch. Plus, nothing levels up your elopement photos like wild, untamed florals that look like they belong in a magazine.
Hair & Makeup Artist
Elopements often happen outdoors, which means wind, rain, and whatever else Mother Nature throws your way. Book someone experienced with elopements, so they know how to create a look that stays put through mountaintop vows and beach breezes.
1-3 Months Before:
Rentals (If Needed)
If youāre adding a styled ceremony setupālike an arch, rugs, or even a small table for a champagne toast ā nowās the time to finalise any rentals.
Dining Arrangements
Whether youāre hiring a private chef, booking a restaurant, or setting up a cozy picnic for two, lock it in now. Because nothing says ābest day everā like celebrating with amazing food in an epic location.
Your NZ Elopement Photographer
All of the stuff an elopement photographer does that I mentioned? Is my expertise! Iād so love to co-create the elopement of your dreams.
When You Should Book Your Wedding Vendors ASAP
1. Youāre Getting Married in Peak Wedding Season
In New Zealand, peak wedding season runs from late spring through early autumn (October to April), with December to March being the busiest months. This is when venues, photographers, florists, and basically every wedding vendor you can think of get booked solid ā especially for weekends.
If youāre planning a wedding during this time, itās best to book your key vendors (venue, photographer, celebrant, caterer) at least 12ā18 months out.
2. You Want a Special Date
Dreaming of tying the knot on 02/02/2026 or 11/11/2025? Or maybe your anniversary falls on a weekend, and you want to keep the tradition going? Dates that look cute on an invitation (hello, palindrome dates!) or have personal significance tend to book out ridiculously fast.
Add in long weekends and public holidays, and youāve got even more competition. If your heart is set on a specific date, start booking vendors yesterday (or, you know, now).
3. Youāre Planning a Destination Wedding or Elopement
Getting married somewhere breathtaking like Queenstown, Wanaka, or a remote beach in the Coromandel? Destination weddings come with extra logisticsāflights, accommodation, and travel schedules for both you and your vendors.
Local vendors in popular destination wedding spots book up quickly, so itās best to secure them 12+ months out. And if youāre bringing vendors with you (like your photographer), youāll want to check their availability before setting your date in stone.
4. You Have Your Heart Set on a Specific Vendor
If thereās a photographer whose work makes you emotional just from scrolling their Instagram, or a florist whose arrangements feel like they belong in an art gallery, book them ASAP. The best vendors are in high demand and often take on a limited number of weddings per year.
The earlier you reach out, the better your chances of securing your dream team. Plus, many vendors offer extra planning support, which makes your life easier from day one.
5. Your Venue Has a Limited Guest Capacity
If youāre planning an intimate wedding at a small boutique venue or a cozy Airbnb, there might be very few dates availableāespecially if they only host a limited number of weddings per year.
Some of the best hidden-gem venues are fully booked more than a year in advance, so if youāre dreaming of a small-but-stunning location, donāt wait too long to lock it in.
Your elopement, done for you
Hey, Iām Shelby!
Iām a wedding photographer specializing in cinematic elopements that capture the real, authentic you.
I offer all-inclusive New Zealand elopement packages for couples who want a fully handled, seamless experience and also have options for those who love a little hands-on planning!
From finding a jaw-dropping location to recommending incredible local vendors, planning your travel and accommodation, and creating a personalised timeline, Iām here to make the whole process feel easy and exciting.
Your wedding day is about connection and presence, and Iāll make sure it feels like itās just the two of you in the world.
Youāre not like everyone else, and your wedding day shouldnāt be either.
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